What is Jewelry Etiquette?
Jewelry is a form of self-expression, a celebration of personal style, and a nod to tradition. The right jewelry can accentuate your best features, complement your outfit, and tell a story without uttering a word. To achieve your desired look, it is important to know how to wear jewelry properly.
Jewelry etiquette refers to the set of unwritten rules that govern the appropriate ways to wear, gift, and care for jewelry. Understanding jewelry etiquette ensures you make the right impression—and the right statement.
Different occasions call for different types of jewelry. For formal events, you will want to choose elegant and understated pieces while casual outings allow for more creative and expressive choices. Understanding the context ensures that your jewelry complements the occasion.
The Rules of Wearing Jewelry
Here are the jewelry etiquette rules you should know.
- Diamonds are Not for Daytime
Except for a small diamond in a simple setting or a diamond engagement ring, diamonds are generally considered too formal and flashy for the daytime. That is why you usually won’t see the royal family wearing diamonds until the sun goes down. Nighttime is the best time to wear diamonds as this is when they really sparkle.
- Less is More
Coco Chanel once said, “Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take one thing off.” This wisdom extends to jewelry as well. Wearing too many accessories can be overwhelming and distracting. Opt for a balanced, effortless look that highlights one or two key pieces rather than wearing every favorite item simultaneously.
- Align Your Jewelry with the Occasion
The first rule of jewelry etiquette is to choose pieces that align with the occasion. While a bold, statement necklace might be perfect for a glamorous evening event, it might seem out of place in a professional work setting. Similarly, subtle studs or a delicate bracelet may be more appropriate for a casual outing than an extravagant night out.
- Change the Setting, Not the Stone
Should you receive a family engagement ring that you do not like, consider the option of adjusting the setting rather than replacing the stone. A skilled jeweler can work wonders, transforming a piece that might seem outdated into a dazzling sparkler that you will love.
- Gift Gracefully
When it comes to gifting jewelry, thoughtfulness is key. Consider the recipient’s taste, lifestyle, and the significance of the occasion. A carefully chosen piece that aligns with their preferences holds more value than a generic item. It’s not just about the jewelry – it’s about the sentiment behind the gift.
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Now that you know the rules of jewelry etiquette, treat yourself to one of these stunning pieces.
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About The Author
Debbie Azar is the Co-Founder and President of Gemological Science International (GSI), one of the largest gemological organizations in the world, and a distinguished leader in the global diamond and jewelry industry. As an executive with extensive knowledge of the jewelry and gem lab industries, her entrepreneurial skills and vision have helped GSI achieve rapid and continuous growth worldwide, establishing 13 leading-edge gemological facilities on four continents. She currently serves on the boards of the Jewelers Vigilance Committee, Responsible Jewellery Council, and Jewelers for Children, and is a member of the 24 Karat Club of New York. She has been featured in Forbes, Daily Mail, Good Morning America, Bloomberg, Bloomberg Businessweek, Fox Business, Fox5, CBS2, BOLDTV, Varney&Co, The Street, and NASDAQ, among others.
